Jan/120
Improving Your Sexual Health
As men age, most start suffering a decrease in sex drive. This isn’t as normal as you’d think, men still usually feel as much sexual desire as they did in their middle age. There’s more to this then simply just getting older.
There are many factors that could be to blame, both physical and emotional. Most problems of low libido are mental rather than physical. Stress is the number one cause behind low libido. Any other negative feelings, like guilt or depression, can also be at work.
As men age they lose 10% of testosterone a decade. Many men lose more than this, resulting in a male form of menopause. Millions of men are going through this right this minute without even realizing it. Most of these men are just convinced that they’re just experiencing growing older. There are many other ways that your body is affected by a dip in testosterone, such as a decrease in bone density, an increase in body fat, and balding, but it’s really what it does to a man’s sexual health that he really starts to take notice in.
The male orgasm is a complex experience. The major function of the male orgasm usually includes the ejaculation of sperm. Male orgasm happens at the peak of sexual pleasure, when the various muscle groups contract simultaneously lots of contractions of the pubococcygeus muscle occur along with contractions of the anal sphincter, rectum and perineum, and the ejaculatory ducts and muscles around the penis. The contracting muscles are the key to delivering the load of semen. The first few contractions are intense and close together, occurring at about 0.8 second intervals. As orgasm continues, the contractions reduce in intensity and duration and occur at less frequent intervals.
There’s no need to feel embarrassed or shy if you are concerned with a sexual health issue. Most men are. Yes, it’s true, women love to feel that it’s large, and harder, it turns them on. The penis has two paired cylinders called the Corpora Cavernosa that, when aroused, expand and fill with blood creating the hardness of your erection.
The capacity of your Corpora Cavernosa to fill with blood during arousal limits erection length and thickness, and these functions can decrease as you age. Many factors come into play when it comes to enjoying a fulfilling sexual lifestyle. A lot of men suffer from performance anxiety. They fear weak erections, insignificant ejaculation, short penetration and disappointing orgasms. They feel like there letting down their sexual partner, and themselves. Sex becomes a task, a painful experience that slowly breaks down self confidence away and inhibits you even further from performing sexually.
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Dec/110
Sexual Hypnosis – Fact Or Fantasy?
Sexual hypnosis is a fact, but I think we need to clear up a few misconceptions about it. This article will discuss not so much about the facts or fantasy aspects of sexual hypnosis, but about the truths behind it. There is a disclaimer about sexual hypnosis, something you should know about before you decide to put that person under a spell and induce he or she to have sexual relations with you.
The brain is built in a very special way and so is the subconscious mind. Our awareness and thought processes form the foundation of the human spirit and the human character and this information is weaved into us from young. Freud called this the Id, the Ego and the Superego of our brains, and each of them has a specific function in determining needs, morality, character and mindset. The formative years is when this is most important, because when we are an adult and have the mental faculties of rational thought and critical thinking well in place, we are better able to siphon off the stimuli of the world, crunch them into raw data and apply them to our brains and accompanying consciousness substructure.
This means that we can judge and we can think. Hypnotism seeks to go into the subconscious and alter the states of the mind and make us do things. Nevertheless, there is one inherent flaw in this application of the age old technology of hypnotism, is the fact the subconscious is a direct representation of the conscious mind’s filtering techniques. Which means that if we are aware of the inherent dangers of something, we translate that into data and inject it into our subconscious mind, which then will trigger anxiety, fear, nervousness – all the emotions that tie in to us resisting against this idea.
This is why people do say that you can never force someone to do something that they do not want to do because the spirit of resistance has already been built into the very powerful subconscious mind. If you did watch a lot of TV shows about hypnotism, you realise that most of the things that they make people do either are something they would do normally or they had the potential to have a desire to do – which is the most important thing in making the success of hypnotism.
So to the question of sexual hypnotism and its factual status, I would really have to say that it would be dependent on the person itself. The person would inherently have the character to easily have sex or have the inclination or inherent attraction already. That plays a very important role in sexual hypnotism. It is not the case where you can force someone to have desire for you, the chemical reactions and emotions necessary are far too complicated for just a single idea within to overcome. Sexual attraction can be instant or it can be built up over a long time; thus you need to understand the complexities of the situation before you even try your hand at sexual hypnotism. It is normally a tool used by psychologists to cure fear of having sex or sexual dementia.
Dec/110
Top 5 Ways to Eliminate Any Sexual Performance Anxiety
This may come as a surprise to you…
At some point in their lives, ALL men suffer from sexual performance anxiety.
If you’re like the average guy, then you probably have moments where you worry about your performance in bed and want to know how you can please your woman better.
Is that is the case then read pay close attention. In the next few paragraphs, I’ll describe a few unique ways to can EASILY eliminate your sexual performance anxiety.
If you can master these tips, then you say goodbye to ANY nervousness that you fact in the bedroom:
Tip #1- Get More Exercise
Believe it or not, a lot of sexual anxiety is resulted from a lack of exercise. If you learn to incorporate more physical fitness activities into your life, you’ll see a dramatic reduction in nervousness and tension which can be a major cause of your anxiety.
Tip #2- Be Aware of Self-Fulfilling Prophesies
The human mind is an amazing thing. If you keep telling yourself that you’re nervous then you’re going to build up a lot of anxiety and will have sex in a nervous manner. In other words, if you keep telling yourself that you’re going to suck in bed, you ARE going to suck in bed.
What you should try to mentally prepare for sex by telling yourself that you’re going to enjoy the experience no matter what happens.
Tip #3- Learn to Relax
If you can approach sex with a relaxed and stress-free attitude, you’ll eliminate a lot of your anxiety. All you have to is remind yourself that having sex is supposed to be an enjoyable activity. Just remember that it’s not the end of the world if your performance isn’t great.
Tip #4- Manage the Stress in Your Life
Much of the anxiety that you face before sex can be resulted from outside stressors in your life. If you can manage to manage (or eliminate) some things which are hampering your performance, you’ll learned to be relax. And as we all know, being relaxed in the bedroom can help approach the experience with a great attitude.
Tip #5- Find the Right Woman
While a lot of performance anxiety can be internal, there are some times when it can be resulted from outside factors. For instance, many guys suffer from anxiety due to overwhelming expectations from their female partner.
If you’re in a situation where your woman is pressuring you, try talking to her. If you can’t have a frank and open discussion about what’s going on, then you might be with the wrong woman.
Sexual performance anxiety can have a crippling effect on your love life. If you take care to manage your internal factors and find the right woman, you’ll find that it’s a simple process to eliminate your anxiety.
Once this is done, you’ll be able to have a GREAT sexual experience!
Dec/110
Lifestyles Condoms in Review
It’s no secret that using a condom during sexual activities is a great way to protect you and your partner from most sexually transmitted diseases as well as unwanted pregnancies. But that just part of the story as there are a variety of different brands of condoms on the market designed to enhance and protect your sexual experience in a variety of different ways.
In this article, you will discover the different kinds of Lifestyle brand condoms that are on the market today and which one is going to be the best fit for you and your partner.
Lifestyles Condoms in Review
When it comes to the different kinds of condom brands on the market Lifestyles condoms is arguably one of the most recognized condom brands there is even though not too many people are familiar with their entire line of condoms.
SKYN Condoms – One of the most sensitive condoms currently on the market as it uses a polyisoprene non-latex material that will have you feeling the difference.
X2 Condoms – Lubricated on the inside and outside with Excite Enhancement Gel which means stronger and more intense orgasms for both partners.
Ultra Thin Condoms – Carefully made from some of the thinnest latex quality material for strength and durability in addition to being lubricated for maximum pleasure.
Ultra Sensitive Condoms – If you are looking for a thin condom with a reservoir tip that offers extra comfort and safety then Ultra Sensitive condoms are going to be your best choice.
Ultra Sensitive with Spermicide – Contains spermicide to provide extra protection for those moments when you and your partner have an accident.
These are 5 of the most popular Lifestyles Condom Brands available. If you had to choose just one condom then SKYN condoms would be your best choice as it offers you the most sensation a condom can provide especially when you apply a few drops of your favorite personal lubricant on the inside and outside of the condom.
Dec/110
Sexual Health and Weight Loss
Everyone’s going gaga over the latest diet craze being hyped by the media or the newest workout program to hit the fitness scene. New weight loss pills are being introduced one after another and have flooded the market competing for sales. People everywhere seem to be in that “lose the excess pounds” psyche: “Thin is sexy!”. “Lean is hot!”. “Rip those biceps.” “Flaunt your abs.”
Back in the 80′s, Olivia Newton-John popularized the song “Let’s Get Physical” which promoted fitness and about the same time, physical fitness videos by celebrities flooded the market such as the legendary Jane Fonda Aerobics Videos. Even John Travolta’s dance movie, “Staying Alive” capitalized on the fact that the then-emerging star was being mentored by no less than Sylvester Stallone for his physical fitness program to fit the role to a “T”.
In today’s world where survival of the fittest becomes the name of the game, being overweight is considered absolutely unsexy. The message is clear as you see it on tv, billboards, and magazines. Has everyone gone self-conscious? Let’s face it. It’s not just about vanity or feeling good about yourself. It’s about living a healthy lifestyle. The universal need to look and feel sexually desirable just comes secondary. Whether you like it or not, being overweight is unattractive and can pose serious consequences in one’s health condition.
How true is it that for every pound you lose, the more sexually desirable you become? Though there are people who prefer sexual partners who are on the voluptous side, a great number still prefer having the right curves and bulges at the right places. However, being sexually attractive is not the only goal we need to consider. Whether you are a man or a woman, you are responsible to always keep your body in good condition, if not in perfect shape. Losing weight can improve the sexual health of both men and women. The couple becomes more aware of each others new size. Their sexual senses have become more attuned to the sexual stimuli which they receive and therefore increases their sexual pleasure. By having slimmer bodies, both the man and the woman becomes comfortable with their bodies and they tend to enjoy each other better when it comes to their sexual activities, as compared to overweight couples. It is no longer just a physical thing, it becomes an emotional factor.
Obesity and Infertility
It is believed that obesity could greatly affect male sexual health concerning infertility. According to the National Institute of Environmental Health Sciences (NIEHS),”overweight men are significantly more likely to be infertile than normal-weight men, and that for every 20-pound body weight gain in men there is a ten per cent increase in infertility.” Though statistics show that women are more prone to obesity that men, still, this clearly shows that men should also take care of their weight for their health’s sake.
On the other hand, obese women are particularly susceptible to increase in blood pressure than their male counterparts. There is also higher risk of cancers such as postmenopausal breast cancer and endometrial cancer, diabetes and cardiovascular disease.
Body Image and Healthy Weight
For all its worth, men and women alike should maintain an ideal body weight and image. Body image is the way we project ourselves and how we perceive and imagine the response of others. It is not inborn, therefore, we can do something about it. Healthy weight is the size which a person achieves based on the goal initially set in accordance with the person’s physical condition as determined by a medical professional.
People try to find sensible and sustainable ways to achieve and maintain a healthy weight on a long term basis. Maintain a healthy diet, exercise regularly, lead a vice-free lifestyle, and all the good things in life will be added unto you as well.